Random thoughts about random things...


I haven't touched this blog thing for about 3 months. I really don't have that much to say, but lately these thoughts have been on my mind. Those who know me know that my thoughts are precious to me and I mostly keep them to myself. These thoughts might have arisen during conversations with friends or from my observations of people, places, and or things.


1) I hate when a person tries to analyze someone else, when most of the time that person needs to do a self analysis. If you don't have a degree in psychology or any related field, leave the analyzing to the professional (ahem...Tom Cruise and a few other people I can name)

2) I am not big on negativity! If you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all. If it seems like I am being short with you this year, do me a favor before you get mad at me... Ask yourself "Is what I am saying A) pointless, B) sending out negative energy or bad spirits, or C) negative in tone?" If the answer is yes to any or all the above, please change the subject and we will be just fine. If the answer is no, don't assume that I am PMSing and ask me what is wrong and then we can go from there.

3) Don't always expect the worse out of a situation or a person. Enjoy life and don't worry about what everyone else is doing. Help others.

4) Yes, the world is a place where lots of oppression and injustices take place every second of every day. Our duty as the human race is to bring awareness to others and to do our part to help. When others are not receptive to the truth, stop talking and continue doing. When the gravity of the situation is weighing on your spirit, stop and think on the goodness that also exist in the world.

5) Can we be so passionate about what is right in our mind that we begin to emmulate the very thing that we hate? Ex: In my crusade to ensure that the voice of the underdog is always heard, I tend to yell at the top dog insisting that he allows someone else to voice their opinion, after awhile, am I making the top dog the new underdog? Still confused? The church often preaches that hate is wrong and that all have sinned, etc, etc, however many churches spew hate against homosexuals and single mothers. Somewhere in there, what the church is passionate about...hate is wrong...has become something that it has begun to practice. Stop think about it.

6) No, I am not anti-church and yes I am SIC as ever! "What will people say when they find out imma Jesus freak... I don't really care if they find out it's true..." ~DC Talk

7) In order to make change, you must know what you want to change and sometimes you must go and examine things that you want to keep hidden. But in order to grow you must make a sacrafice on the front end.

8) I think people who Blog daily have a serious problem or needs something else to do at work.

9) I admire the "make it happen" attitude of people like Diddy, Tyra Banks, Beyonce and Jay Z. It goes without saying, Kathy Hughes and Oprah.

10) I love to watch re runs of Making the Band, Run's House, America's Next Top Model

11) I was really only joking about number 8... well kinda...

12) I really don't like when people ask me questions. But I know that some people are just inquisitive, so for those people who are just going to ask me questions anyway, please keep in mind how you ask questions. If you ask me something with a snobbish, teasing or nosy tone; then please realize that I am not going to answer your question. But if you ask with a genuine sincere tone, I will (maybe unwillingly) answer your question.


Okay, thats all the thoughts that I am willing to let go right now. If you feel that I am talking about you, it is possible but more than likely I am not. Some of you reading this won't believe that I am not talking about you so you can go ahead and believe whatever. Just as long as it makes you feel more important about yourself.